Monday, May 17, 2010

…Family

Life is just like a book…

That's what I think right now.

We are who live this life become the author of our book's stories and the main character in that book.

There's always new experience in life from day to day, I believe that. I also got something new this evening.


 

May 17, 2010; 01.30 pm

I'm doing an interview with my informants. Lots of obstacles I've got. We are not sharing the same language; it's difficult to stand with that. I'm asking lots of things start from their name, education record, the city where they live, until their FAMILY.

I'm opening their books of life. I "read" it. Sometime I'm giggling, smiling, or laughing when I read it. It's interesting, really interesting. They told me so many trivia things that I don't know before about their country. We share our experiences together; share our thought, and our opinion. It's very fun when they describe about their family and their life. They could say everything frankly. They told me how scary their father is, how dear their mother, how kind or annoying their brother and/or sister. They said everything with interesting expressions.

Sometime, I think how lucky they are because they can do it easily. It's really hard for me to express such thing easily. But, it's a nice thing to know. At least, I learnt something from them. Learn to express your feeling, emotion, and affection frankly.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

I Want...

Someone said that there's no coincidence in this world. Everything that happened to oneself is fated…

Is that?

Someone I knew said that what happened to his life caused by his family. None of his family want him is what he always said to everybody. He said, "I want to be born in a good family."

Another person I knew said, "I want to be born in a rich family so everybody will pay attention on me."

The other said, "I want to be a multi-talented person so I could attract lots of people attention." But never do any single thing to achieve that.

One said he wants a great life without knowing what his standards of greatness.

So many complaints spilled from their mouth. Blaming on the condition is the only thing we always do. Is that fate? Is that the fate that no one can change?

That's not fate!

I believe, as long as we live, we can change lots of things. We might not all do the great thing, but…

…we could do small things with great love…

…and do the change.

Heaven never help those who can't help themselves ~anonymous~

Stop blaming on people around you…

Stop compassioning yourself too much…

Stop complaining your misfortune and the condition…

Before it takes over your life!